 |
|
|
|
|
|
 |
 |
|
|
Finally candid answers to all those important and sometimes embarrassing Jewish dating questions!!! Presenting the debut column of Frumma Frumsky. Ask Frumma all your questions that have yet to be answered properly and honestly by someone who actually knows what religious singles truly have to deal with and understands how to deal with
these issues.
Click here to ask Frumma a question!
|
Subject: 'unattractive'
Dear Frumma,
How do you tell a girl you don't wan't to date her because she is unnatractive? What if the 'chemistry' is ok, but she's just . . . unattractive?
Anonymous
|
Wow. Toughie. This Claudia Schiffer look-alike is having trouble putting myself in a situation such as the one u posed.(*pinch*)YOW!!! Out of reverie into Real Life 101. I think the only way to do this is with a bit of lying. If you really tried to connect, and it is definitely a no-go, tell her you like a like, but you cannot see it as a long term relationship--bec you feel personalities aren't "shayach", or feel that at this time you dont see it going anywhere permanent, so you feel the best idea for both of you, is to take a break. Okay, all of you are out to clobber me, but you tell a girl she is unattractive? U BREAK HER HEART FOREVER. Seriously, it is taking her, and make her feel like two cents. This is a case where a non-truth is needed. I rest my case.
Frumma
|
|
Comments:
Isn't beauty in the eyes of the beholder...?
Natan 10/14/2005 AM
|
|
Note: The views and opinions expressed here are that of Ms. Frumma Frumsky. They may not necessarily represent the opions of the site, staff or members. This section is meant to address issues in observant dating. The responses may include sarcastic remarks, or humorous statements intended to make light of the question, answer and perhaps the situation as well. We are not responsible if you decide to take or ignore the advice given in this column.
Click here to ask Frumma a question!
|
 |
|
|
 |
 |
|
|
| |
|